Dude!!!! Why not Volunteer!!!!! Something that has only "route hours" ie.... sag-wagon, marshalls, etc.
That way you can be on the "ride" but still have energy to be a parent at the "business" end of the day.
Where I'm coming from is that when I "vollied" I noticed too many "parental" units struggling with being tired & yet still having to be functional PUs (Parental Units)
I think you understand what I'm trying to convey.
Enough of this forum nonsense. I'm going riding!!